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Welcome to The Love Lab, a newsletter about sex and relationship advice from a sexologist.
Jun 27, 2022
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Lanae St.John
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Halftime
On Bad Bunny, power, and who gets the stage
Feb 10
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Lanae St.John
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The Memory My Body Didn’t Forget
A story about consent, memory, and listening to the body.
Nov 14, 2025
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Lanae St.John
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If I Hear “What Do You Bring to the Table” One More Time…
How transactional thinking keeps us all from feeling truly seen
Oct 10, 2025
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Lanae St.John
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The People-Pleasing Part of Me
I thought I was being easygoing—until I realized I was just tolerating.
Oct 4, 2025
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Lanae St.John
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Why P*rn Isn't to Blame for Our Attitudes About Sex
Feb 19, 2023
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Lanae St.John
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Unpacking Society's Mixed Messages About Sex and Intimacy
Nov 8, 2023
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Lanae St.John
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I Didn’t Know What He Meant—But Now I Do
Jul 18, 2025
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Lanae St.John
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The People-Pleasing Part of Me
Oct 4, 2025
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Lanae St.John
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10 Sex Education Myths Debunked
Aug 11, 2023
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Lanae St.John
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Nudity + parenting
Sep 7, 2022
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Lanae St.John
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How We Rewrite Fear for the Next Generation
The first time I noticed it, Marcia was a toddler.
Sep 12, 2025
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Lanae St.John
This Is Why Gender Reveals Make Me Cringe
Gender reveals are everywhere. But what if we swapped labels for possibility and threw a party that welcomed whoever this new little human turns out to…
Aug 8, 2025
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Lanae St.John
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I Wrote This for Moms. But Maybe It Was Always for You
On composting old ideas, finding the right audience, and reclaiming the truth about sex and connection
Aug 8, 2025
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Lanae St.John
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Can You Thrive Without Ever Being Taught?
Rom-coms, porn, and the bullsh!t we call sex ed*
Jul 25, 2025
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Lanae St.John
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I Didn’t Know What He Meant—But Now I Do
(On Cherishing, the Cool Girl Lie, and What I Hope My Daughters Learn First)
Jul 18, 2025
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Lanae St.John
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We Made Sex the Main Event and Lost the Plot
Why we deserve more ways to connect than just sex
Jul 3, 2025
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Lanae St.John
7 Million Views, $188, and the Real Price of Free Sex Education Online
7 million people read my words. I earned $188. This is the hidden cost of keeping sex education free—and why it matters more than ever.
May 9, 2025
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