Welcome to The Love Lab
Welcome to The Love Lab, a newsletter about sex and relationship advice from a sexologist.
Thank you for joining me! You’ve made a wonderful decision and I am here to support you.
This is not going to be like other sex advice you’ve heard.
We’re going to be talking about sẹxuality in a way that’s not super porn-y and not super earth mother, goddess-y either (though I do think I lean more toward the latter than the former).
It might be funny though! Sex is pretty funny, if you think about it.
So to formally introduce myself: Hello, I’m Lanae St.John, a.k.a. “The MamaSutra”.
I’m a board-certified sẹxologist, certified sẹx coach, sẹxuality educator, and author of ‘Read Me: A Parental Primer for “The Talk”’.
Why should you care about sẹx/uality?
Unlike the Pythagorean Theorem and many other things you may have learned in school, sẹx is something we actually need to have accurate information about for our whole lives.
Some of us didn’t get ANY information. We’re expected to just wing it.
Get thrown in the deep end and figure it out.
But that makes NO sense. To learn to drive safely, we have Driver’s Ed.
To learn to swim safely, we have swim lessons.
To learn how to be safe in our sẹxual experiences… well, this is where I think we need some help.
If not in middle school or high school, then when? When we become sẹxual with other people? That’s just too late.
As a Sex and Relationship Coach for Grownups, I help you get in touch with your body and sexuality so you can talk openly, be present in your relationships, and experience the kind of sex and intimacy that has you smiling the whole next day.