Oops, We Never Talked About That
My Boundary Blunders in Relationships
I’ve got an “Oops, We Never Talked About That” story that might just make you go, “Been there!” So, let's talk about something we often tiptoe around in relationships – boundaries.
That Time I ‘Cheated’... Or Did I?
Picture this: I’m in what I thought was a post-breakup phase. You know, chatting with new people, feeling free. But here’s the plot twist – my ex-boyfriend (he still thought we were a thing) was pretty shocked. Why? We started to see each other again but didn’t have the “Are we exclusive?” talk. It was a classic case of assumed boundaries, leading to a mix-up that felt like a sitcom episode but was way less funny.
Assumptions are Sneaky Gremlins
This experience was my wake-up call. I learned the hard way that assuming you're on the same page with your partner can lead to drama. Big drama. The key?
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