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Top Picks for Bedroom Toys 🔥
As a sexologist, I get asked all the time: How can I spice things up in the bedroom? Want to know my go-to suggestion? Toys!
Today I’m sharing my Top Bedroom Toy picks for those who are unashamed to seek out resources that will move the needle on your sex life (and for those of you who are a little ashamed, scroll to the bottom for something for you!) Also, I thought this would be a helpful resource for holiday shopping, as I’m sure most of these sites will be having sales—so get ‘em while they’re hot (literally!)
Below you can find the list of my favorite adult xxx toys. You can trust that these are tried and true favorites of mine - things I recommend personally to my friends as well. Enjoy!
My Favorite Adult Toys
My first vibrator, *heart eyes*!
Think bondage, restraints, positioning tools, and get 20% off.
This toy sucks – in all the right ways ;)
Club Vibe 3.OH by OhMiBod
Because you know you’re all about that bass!
Lovelife Krush Smart Kegel Exerciser
Literally a personal trainer in your vagina.
To help you get into some new positions.
Save the sheets for sleeping!
Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo
For a circumcised penis. I hear it’s pretty intense if you’re not!
Formerly the Hitachi Magic Wand
Vesper Necklace by LoveCrave
Beautiful jewelry to wear to the grocery store- a vibrator at the touch of a button.
Joque Harness by Spareparts Spareparts Joque Harness
Stronic Real by FunFactory
A pulsator, not a vibrator
Single Locking Foot Rest & Dual Locking Handle for Sex In The Shower
*Amazon Affiliate link - not a paid promotion
For good, clean fun
Njoy Pure Wand
Polished stainless steel for g- and p-spot stimulation
Betty Dodson’s Barbell Weight (serious training of a vulva)
Duet Flex by Crave (compact vibrator)
Pure Wand by njoy (solid, and no batteries needed)
Tango by WeVibe (a modern bullet vibe)
Iroha Rechargeable Silicone Vibrators (yuki) (are these vibrators or art pieces?)
Screaming O vibrating Cock Ring (the most versatile of the genre IMHO)
Aneros Trident (prostate play for the penis owners)
Under the bed restraint system (and it hides away so nicely in the sheets)
Ignite Me Massage Candle (pomegranate Mint) (to dribble on your partner)
Kama Sutra Weekender Kit (wonderful scents to play with your senses)
Midsize Leather Flogger (To tease, or punish)
Pinwheel BDSM toy, aka the wartenburg wheel (same)
Ostrich feather tickler (same)
Yoga of Sex (home study to teach you the advanced skills)
And an item or two for the fun of it:
Safety Scissors (To cut yourself out of any tight situations)
GoGirl Silicone STP (for the ladies so you can pee standing up – if you need a situation like that *coughcampingcough*)
Sea sponges – in case you want to do sexual things while menstruating.
AND you can find even MORE suggestions (and DEALS!) here!
Take a browse through Kinkly.com
I love this online shop, and it contains so many of the above items all in one place.
Your turn: What’s your favorite bedroom toy? Let us know in the comments below!
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