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Sep 21, 2022Liked by Lanae St.John

Nothing here surprised me. In fact, I appreciate everything that was communicated. It was much more than I ever received in sixth grade health class.

Boys should know more about the vagina and not be so averse to the subject. It saddens me many women never reach orgasm, and there are reasons for that. Not knowing how to pleasure a woman for one and the importance of foreplay to get her aroused. It isn’t all about the guy getting his rocks off. Focusing on the woman’s pleasure, or being aware and sensitive to what gives her pleasure will reciprocately give him pleasure in return.

They’re issues that come up for the male side as well. Performance anxiety for one.

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And isn't it remarkable that we go through life with a SIXTH grade education in sex?!

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100%! For those boys who ID as hetero or who are interested in people with a vulva, the stigma and the bravado do not match up. To go into these classes with curiosity and not "ick" or "i already know all this" would make a great start.

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Too Sex Starved To Think about unpopular opinions. Kirk

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