The Love Lab

How We Rewrite Fear for the Next Generation

The first time I noticed it, Marcia was a toddler.

Sep 12 • 

Lanae St.John

August 2025

This Is Why Gender Reveals Make Me Cringe

Gender reveals are everywhere. But what if we swapped labels for possibility and threw a party that welcomed whoever this new little human turns out to…

Aug 8 • 

Lanae St.John

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I Wrote This for Moms. But Maybe It Was Always for You

On composting old ideas, finding the right audience, and reclaiming the truth about sex and connection

Aug 8 • 

Lanae St.John

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July 2025

Can You Thrive Without Ever Being Taught?

Rom-coms, porn, and the bullsh!t we call sex ed*

Jul 25 • 

Lanae St.John

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I Didn’t Know What He Meant—But Now I Do

(On Cherishing, the Cool Girl Lie, and What I Hope My Daughters Learn First)

Jul 18 • 

Lanae St.John

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We Made Sex the Main Event and Lost the Plot

Why we deserve more ways to connect than just sex

Jul 3 • 

Lanae St.John

May 2025

7 Million Views, $188, and the Real Price of Free Sex Education Online

7 million people read my words. I earned $188. This is the hidden cost of keeping sex education free—and why it matters more than ever.

May 9 • 

Lanae St.John

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July 2024

10 Reasons for a Drop in Libido

Low libido is perfectly normal from time to time, given your life circumstances.

Jul 31, 2024 • 

Lanae St.John

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10 Questions Every Couple Should Ask Each Other

Remember the popular “36 Questions To Fall In Love” NYTimes article?

Jul 25, 2024 • 

Lanae St.John

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You know it when you see it

An exercise to help you determine if your partner is right for you

Jul 19, 2024 • 

Lanae St.John

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June 2024

Getting Better with Age

How Intimacy Enhances Over Time in Adulthood

Jun 26, 2024 • 

Lanae St.John

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The Power of Pleasure

Plus, giveaway ends o

Jun 20, 2024 • 

Lanae St.John